Couples often say ‘I love my partner but I am not ‘in love’ with him/her any more’. We all look back longingly on those heady days when we felt so ‘in love’ and wish that feeling could last forever. The reality is that blissful feeling lasts between 6 months and 2 years while a relationship is forming and couples are finding out how much they have in common. People at this stage spend endless hours talking, sharing, expressing affection, thinking about each other and having fun. As time goes on, it becomes clear you are two separate people with real … Continue reading Loss of ‘spark’