People connect in many and varied ways and it is always painful when we sense change and a loss of connection. It is hard enough with friends but it is very troubling with our intimate partner. Very complex motivations are at play in the process of people connecting and being attracted to one another, so it is not surprising that it is easy for disconnection to occur. Sometimes people come together around a shared interest or activity but, more often, couples are attracted by their differences – different personalities, different family backgrounds or cultures. These differences can be exciting and … Continue reading Loss of connection